Finding the perfect "Two"

Relationships - they can be sweet, sour, simple and complex. As a Christian, you would think in order to be in a relationship, you must find someone that's Godly and compatible. Maybe he or she has the same hobbies as you. Maybe he or she goes to church and serves God. Maybe he or she is smart and has a great sense of humour. Maybe he or she satisfies that "criteria" of yours and therefore, becomes the perfect "one". 

To just clarify, I am not a relationship expert at all, but I believe we actually need to look for the perfect "two". Why? If I seek a relationship for life, I need to seek one intimate relationship, which is with God aka the ONE. God should be the one and my spouse should be the two. Sometimes the question I ask myself is "How do I find the right person for me?". And to be honest, that is the wrong question to ask. I really should be asking, "Who am I and who am I created for?" Who am I called to be?

If you are single right now, be content! Don't try to fill the void. Take this space to figure out who you are and rest in God's timing. And if you are in a relationship, take time together to reflect where God's place is in your relationship. God really does want the best for us. 

So....

Instead of constantly trying to find the perfect "two", meditate on the fact that the perfect "one" has already found you :) God bless.